So, is it mine?

Every single thing that you want to be yours- IS YOURS! Of course some things may take more time than others, but you will achieve it in due time, with due diligence. Now, If you’re anything like me when it comes to shopping, for example, you just sometimes simply NEED it(need, want, same difference 😏) so here is what I am getting to… it belongs to you. Let’s talk about our voices. The one inside all of us, that tells us right from wrong. We as women tend to give up our voices and too quickly at that. It’s in our nature to want to please and nurture and love wholeheartedly, but when it comes to choosing sometimes between someone else, a mate for example, we give up our voice. Now when I say we give up our voice, that means a few things (depending on you as a person). This could mean that you don’t stand up for yourself to defend yourself, this could mean you allow others to walk all over you. This could mean that when situations occur, you are not apart of the solution. Whatever the case may be, you aren’t using what is rightfully yours, your voice.

Because I am simply a guide for you to possibly see things in a different light, I’m going to be transparent for a moment. I gave up my voice. For two years. To a man that could not replace it. And I had to simply be tired of being without it in order for me to get it back. This is where and why we lack sometimes, because we are giving up something that belongs to us in order to please or to be loved or to love someone else. It is yours and all yours. Don’t give it up. If you know that you will be facing a hard conversation, write down what you want to say, and that’s ok, but you don’t give up your voice. The next time you want to question yourself on whether or not you should use YOUR voice, don’t ask yourself is it yours, you say, THIS IS MINE.