Happy Friday‼️

Good morning beautiful people and happy Friday! The second Friday of the year is giving me all of the feels TADAY!!! I don’t necessarily make “new year goals” but I do focus on what I need to change and do my best to achieve those changes, and so far I have been making myself proud! I hope that you alI are putting your best foot forward as well when it comes to changing habits that are holding you back so that you can be your best YOU. It takes a lot to make a conscious decision let alone effort to do your best everyday, but nothing beats a failure but a try☺️

In my journey, I am learning how to find an avenue outside of frustration. Outside of frustration. I had to write it twice cause BAYBAY that is a go to emotion!!! It seems as though the older 🥴I get, the more I’m frustrated! I’m already upset because my Megan knees aren’t what they use to be, but that’s another conversation for another time! Being that this is a go to emotion, it shows in how I may respond. I hate that. I absolutely do, but in order to better myself, I have to recognize the issue and make changes to correct it. In doing so, I prepped myself in not responding so quickly. Sometimes we respond to what we see and hear, but miss what we don’t see and what we don’t hear. Meaning, take a little time to process things first before acting upon it. Everything is not always what it seems 😏

Let’s make a general rule as well. Do not allow frustrations to be the reason you make a move. Im from Charleston, sc so let me be Geechee for a second for illustrative purposes 😂” I’m frustrated at this job cause ion like this person”, “ my baby daddy getting on my nerves so now he can’t see lil stink stink”, “ my friend don’t ask me out so ima put her on the block list”…. YALL‼️ take the time out of your day to get CLEAR understanding of a situation before moving forward with frustration! And the worst thing you can do is involve someone else in your foolishness! If you allow frustrations to be the reason you make a move, act upon something, etc. that will always be the driving force and you will never be satisfied, always misunderstood and left hurt and confused. Give the baby daddy a call back to see what’s up, he may have lost his job. Call your friend out to lunch, she may reveal she has been depressed. Tell your coworker good morning, they may break down and reveal they’re having family issues. Everything is not what it seems❤️ Don’t forget y’all, give yourself credit for reaching your goals, no matter how big or how small. Enjoy your weekend ❤️