Goodbye and good riddance

I allowed a two year relationship to get the best of me, and I finally had to call it quits. Y’all, I loved this man, but this man did not and truly COULD not love me how I needed to be loved. Fast forward to today, after begging me to give him another chance because I told him I moved on, he allowed his emotions to run over and wanted me to be just as hurt as him. He texted me some harsh words, and after writing and rewriting my rebuttal, I deleted my words and blocked him. For one, I did not allow him to bring me into his misery. Misery loves company. For two, my elevation and vibration is higher than his frequency will ever be. I know this man from his core, and pushed him and encouraged him as much as I could, and he would not elevate. Lastly, I recognized his hurt and pain, but there was no obligation on my part to acknowledge it. I’ve said all of this to say, it’s ok to walk away from what is hurting you. It’s ok to want better for yourself because at any given time, if the shoe was on the other foot and that person had the same opportunity, they would take it. Today’s lesson and moving forward, don‘t forget to love yourself first.