Don’t be used to, “I’M USED TO”!

What are you used to? Are you used to the same men trying to get your attention? Do you take the same route to work every morning? Or do the children act the same way when you give them an answer to a question? CHANGE THE NARRATIVE!

We as humans, get so complacent in doing the same things over and over again and we get frustrated when we end up with the same results. So I’m going to go ahead and say it, it’s you. Yup. Only you can change how things are supposed to go! Now don’t get me wrong, there are some things in life that happen that are inevitable, but that goes without saying, we cannot change those things. Change what you can is the name of the game. Make change common. Easier said than done, I get it. What you don’t want to happen is you feeling stuck. In a rut. With no place to turn. Start off with something small, and work your way from there. Find a different route to work if possible that will get you to your destination safely. Take time to explain to the children why you give them the answers you do so that their minds can comprehend. And as for the same men trying to get your attention, girl, stop entertaining them. Love you, for real.